For women who are done letting their past own their pleasure
If you’ve ever felt sexually shut down, shut off,
or shut out of your own body — read this.
In 8 weeks, you’ll learn how to release what’s holding you back, reclaim your pleasure,
and become the most powerful healer you’ll ever have — yourself.
From the safety and privacy of your own home.
“I HIGHLY recommend taking this course with Tanja. She helped me through my own sexual healing and I have so much gratitude for where I am now. Things came up I had no idea were connected. It blew my mind. You will feel safe and cared for in your process the whole time. Tanja is amazing! Take this course, even if you are just thinking about it. You will not regret it.” Raven
Maybe you’ve felt it for years.
That disconnect, the numbness, the sense that your body is
somewhere you visit rather than somewhere you live.
Maybe there was something that happened.
Or maybe it was a slow accumulation
of messages that told you your desire was wrong,
your body was wrong, that you were too much or not enough.
Either way, you learned to shut down. To get through, to survive.
You got very good at it.
The problem is surviving isn’t the same as living.
Deep down, you know there’s more available to you than this.
You probably already tried:
Therapy (helpful, but it doesn’t reach the body)
Ignoring it and hoping it gets better (it doesn’t)
Reading books and listening to podcasts (information without transformation)
Waiting until you feel ready (that day keeps not coming)
Here’s the truth:
Your body was protecting you the only way it knew how
and now there’s a better way.
“Besides a wealth of knowledge, self-awareness and the ability to be more honest and vulnerable; I have learned what it feels like to experience my body again. The tightness, the inflexibility and how it’s excruciatingly frustrating and depressing to want to dance but to be limited in movement and confidence. But it’s incredibly exciting and freeing to FEEL the tightness, the inflexibility; to respond to touch. To feel a touch on one part of my body and experience it in other parts of my body as well. Tanja’s program has helped me to re-inhabit my body; to feel awake, and to really question my life; the how and why I do everything.” Kristine R
So how do you know if this program is for you?
This is for you if:
You feel disconnected from your body — like you’re living from the neck up
Sex feels like something you endure, perform, or avoid rather than something you enjoy
You carry shame, guilt, or pain around your sexuality that you’ve never been able to fully release
You’ve been through trauma — big or small — and your body still hasn’t forgotten
You’ve healed so much in therapy but something still feels stuck in your body
You want to feel aroused, alive, and at home in your skin again
You’re going through or have been through menopause, illness, or surgery and want to feel whole again
You’re done waiting for the right moment — you’re ready now
This is NOT for you if:
You’re looking for a quick fix with no personal practice involved
You’re not open to exploring your sexuality with curiosity and compassion
If you read that list and felt a quiet “yes” — even a nervous one — keep reading. That recognition matters.
Introducing:
The Tantra of Sacred Sex & Healing
An 8-week live group program for women who are ready to become their own most powerful healer
This isn’t talk therapy or another book or podcast and it’s nothing like anything you’ve tried before.
Over 30 years of working with women — including survivors of some of the most severe trauma imaginable
one thing has become clear:
The body holds what the mind can’t process and the body is also where the healing lives.
TOSH works at every level — physical, neurochemical, emotional, and energetic
because real healing doesn’t happen in just one dimension.
In 8 weeks together, you will:
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Release the energetic holding patterns your body has carried for years
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Discover deep sexual self-awareness — on your own terms, at your own pace
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Learn to self-soothe, comfort, and rescue yourself
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Integrate sexual trauma without having to relive or retell it
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End sexual frustration and free your orgasm
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Ignite arousal you thought was gone for good
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Walk away with practices that are yours for life — that keep working long after the program ends
And you’ll do all of this from the complete privacy and safety of your own home.
“Tanja, as an abuse survivor, I can honestly say that one afternoon changed everything! Because of that afternoon how I ask for help, how I seek accountability, and how I exude power over my choices, body, and mind changed. I went from victim to survivor to a conscious activist. Not too shabby! ” Julianne Pierson 2014
How It Works
Simple, private, and completely from home.
Every week for 8 weeks, we meet live on Zoom.
Each call is about 60 minutes — no cameras required, no sharing required, no nudity, no physical touch.
Just you, showing up for yourself.
Here’s what’s included:
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8 weekly live group calls — lecture-based, practical, and deeply supportive
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Lifetime access to all recordings — can’t make a call? Watch on your own time, in your own space
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Private community access — where you’ll get bonus live videos and personal support.
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Practices that are yours forever — these tools don’t stop working when the program ends
You’ll never have to:
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Share your story
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Disclose your past
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Have a partner
Everything is designed so you can go as deep as you choose, at exactly the pace that feels right for you.
“In the last 6 years, I have had the opportunity to work with numerous healers on my tantric path. As I search my memory for those on my A-list, Tanja surfaces first.
It was immediately apparent to me as well as others, that she embodied every attribute one needs to be, truly in service of this work…
Absolute personal and professional integrity, a spiritual being, honest, compassionate, and highly skilled.
Tanja exhibits each of these with a great sense of humor added to one’s process of discovery.” Jewel – California
Join the Program
You’ve carried this long enough. Here’s how to get started.
Choose the option that works for you:
✦ Pay in Full
$697
[Enroll Now — $697]
✦ Payment Plan
2 payments of $350
First payment today, second payment in 30 days
[Enroll Now — 2 × $350]
Both options include everything:
- 8 live weekly group Zoom calls
- 5 year access to all recordings
- Private community support
- Practices that are yours forever
- Private Community
Registration is limited. When the spots are gone, they’re gone.
[I’m Ready — Enroll Now]
Questions before you join? Email tanja@learningtantra.com
COMMENTS FROM THE LAST GROUP DURING THE PROGRAM
“This experience is proving to be quite revelatory for me, so thank you so much for the practices, expert holding and support. I love the grounded way you present this, the humour keeps it light and you bring this to us keeping it real. I like that.”
“What I have been noticing are subtle, delightful shifts in my dynamic with my partner, both on my part and on his, even if I have not shared with him the particulars of this course. It is a gentle melting of defensive layers, and I am excited to continue to explore that.”
“Have been noticing that sticky situations with my partner that would normally have taken plenty of time and energy to sort out, lately are getting re-channeled with ease and grace seemingly in no time at all. Amazed I am Tanja Diamond”
“I sincerely appreciate your straight forward nuts and bolts approach to our healing. I see that it is helping me to heal not only my sexual energy, but also my life! My brain! My beliefs! So much!”
“Cool update … I have been “juicy wet” for two days…. which is new for me… I do usually get it within the first two weeks of my cycle – but this is different! Like I have sexual arousal fluids at the ready!!!”
“I want to let you know that this course has been a Godsend & helped me so much and I really feel like I’ve moved forwards – deep gratitude.”
“There was a part of me that was refusing to join the whole and wanted control. I took a breath and opened bigger in my energy body. Resentment dissolved in a poof! And my root was flooded in relief and trust that life has my back.”
Here’s what I know after 30 years of doing this work:
The women who need this most are often the ones who wait the longest.
They wait until they feel ready. Until the timing is perfect. Until they’ve tried one more thing.
But healing doesn’t come from waiting. It comes from deciding.
You deserve to feel alive in your body. Fully. Finally. Now.
The practices you learn in these 8 weeks are yours forever. Long after the program ends, they keep working — because you keep working. And every time you use them, you’ll go a little deeper.
That’s the gift of becoming your own healer.
You in?
[Enroll Now — $697] [Enroll Now — 2 × $350]
Spots are limited. Enrollment closes [date].
Still have questions? Read through the FAQ below — chances are your answer is already there.
“Working with Tanja has been transformative. I am no newbie. I came to her well versed in many of the categories she deftly leads us into. Yet Tanja is my highest teacher, her breadth of knowledge is extraordinary, her leadership unmatched. What makes her incredibly different, truly unique is her overhaul of our understanding our of arousal system: her science behind how we do what we do (in our bodies, our hearts, our belief system) and providing the individual practices for us to do so, so much more than I previously had imagined. I will say there was a “before” and “after” Tanja. I am reminded daily that the “before Tanja “ me is barely recognizable. This isn’t about following someone, this is about stripping away the things we follow, to become our fullest selves.” CS New York
FAQ
Q- Do I need a partner for this?
A – No, this is a solo journey. You can be partnered however this is for you and about you.
Q- Will you be demonstrating on the call and do we get naked on the call?
A – No to both. This is not needed to learn the healing practices or have them work for you.
Q- I have had trauma and arousal issues for over 20 years and have tried everything why will this be different?
A – I have developed practices that are multidimensional, working with the physical, neurochemical, emotional, and energetic components. There is nothing like this work anywhere, it is my life’s work.
Q- Are you trauma trained?
A – Yes and I have been working with people with sexual abuse challenges for over 30 years.
Q- What if I can’t be in a group of other women will I still get results?
A – Yes, and many women who don’t like groups are amazed at what happens here.
It is not mandatory you join the private FB group to get results, you will need to access the group to get the call links.
I will say based on my years of experience women heal better in community and you will miss all my extra lives and expert advice I give in the group. So go ahead and join.
Q- Do I have to interact on the ZOOM call?
A – No. There is no need to ever disclose anything from your past to get results.
Q- What if I am in a time zone that doesn’t work for the calls, will I still get the benefit?
A – Yes. All the calls are recorded and you can access them anytime and get on the FB group to interact and ask questions as well.
Q- I’m a Christian, will the practices go against my faith?
A – No, I work with people from many different belief systems and faiths. And if you have a concern about something please let me know and we might be able to modify something.
Q- Will I have to share my trauma story with you or strangers?
A – No. This is not talk therapy. Truthfully I have worked with some of the most horrid trauma cases in the world and my system works without me knowing what has happened.
If you want to share in the FB group you may however this is not about where you have been as much as where you are going.
Q- Do you offer refunds?
A – Yes.
If you have paid the full price and if after the first call you don’t feel this is right for you then please let me know and I’ll refund you.
I must receive your email refund request after the first call. Email Tanja@learningtantra.com REFUND in the subject line.
“I feel more brave and determined to move through the edgy places as a result of working with Tanja and the exemplary model she is.”
Anne Douglas, Banff, AB, Canada