ED and internet porn… a new technology problem

Posted by on March 9, 2013 in Uncategorized | 0 comments

Internet porn is not your Dad’s Playboy or Hustler by any means. This readily available and easily accessible nonstop, get anything you want new version is actually changing men’s brain chemistry and it is wreaking havoc on their sex lives and also the way men masturbate.

This is especially problematic when young men and teens start out using porn before they have any real experience with sex. Since 80 percent of kids are exposed to internet porn by age 11, some have been using internet porn for years and years before they have any real time experience.

Internet porn uses cause artificially high levels of dopamine in your brain which over time can cause addiction like issues and behaviors. The need for more and more stimulation, more and most hard core visuals, the dissatisfaction with real sex and real women, having to fantasize about porn when with a real partner.

Everyone is different so there are no hard and fast rules about how much use is too much use. Some men use it a couple of times a month and end up with ED issues and others have to use it every day to have problems. You are unique and so in your chemistry.

So what are the sexual issues men are facing today because of using internet porn?

Inability to get an erection or full erection with a real woman

Inability to keep an erection during sex

Inability to feel much during intercourse

Inability to attain ejaculation or orgasm with a real women

Inability to get turned on without porn or fantasy about porn

Inability to get aroused without harder and harder porn

and you get the idea… not good.

These men are going to doc and finding out they are physically fine. They ask if masturbating a lot will cause this, they hear no, masturbating will not hurt you. They leave confused because most doc do not know about this yet either. They think maybe they are just anxious about sex and they have heard that sexual anxiety is a cause of ED, and yes it certainly can be.

To find out if your ED is caused by anxiety or your internet porn use, try this.

Try to masturbate (alone) using no porn and no fantasy—only sensual touch. Use the same speed and pressure as you would during intercourse. If you are inexperienced sexually go at a medium rhythm not the energizer bunny sex you see in porn, that’s just not real or how women want it.

How erect is your penis without porn? If your penis is not fully erect, or it takes effort to become erect, then the chances are that anxiety is not the source of your problems, your internet porn use is.

Although after having issues with performance and sex, anxiety will get triggered down the road.

When men masturbate to porn they do not always realize they are being pretty heavy handed because they are absorbed in the visual and not in the feeling of their genitals. Men train themselves via masturbation for sexual intercourse. Very few vaginas in the world will ever feel like a dry hard hand, or a lubed tight hand.

Also, I have noticed that once a man stops using internet porn he tells me his erections are bigger, better and his sex drive actually increases. This happens even with men who have no apparent issues when using internet porn.

I would love you to take a challenge to see how you are doing in regards to internet porn use.

Stop using any porn or porn fantasy for 30 days. If you can do this with no problem.. no problem.

If you cannot then it is time for a change of what you are doing. Sometimes you may need a professional to overcome internet porn issues and sometimes you can do it on your own.

If you can stop without help, then stop masturbating and using porn for awhile, see what happens. It can take 3 months for your brain chemistry to change back to normal and you may feel worse while you are healing. It is worth it…

If you know you are having issues and can’t quit on your own drop me a line.

 

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